I try to live in a world of possibilities.

After my initial run in with a ‘problem’, my mind invariably shifts into what can be a/the ‘solution’.

Some solutions are easier or better than others. Sometimes solutions shift over time. Some solutions take a while to make themselves known.

The constant is my not giving up. My desire to see a thing go, nay fly (!!!) is so joyful and satisfying.

But there are times, when all has been done and there is nothing left but to give up. One more solution or one more attempt won’t change anything – it might even make things worse. In those moments, giving up feels like a resigned defeat.

But sometimes, ceasing is its own joy, a kindness. And that’s ok.

Sometimes you just have to give up.

Be kind to You Fam 💜